How Do I Measure Coaching Results?

Coach’s Corner . . .

A selection from frequently–asked questions

Dear Coach,
I truly see the value in coaching my staff whenever there are problems and also to get better results for each person.  However, it’s my experience that coaching needs a lot of time and patience if it is to work as intended although I do agree that the results are usually long lasting. But my boss is starting to challenge the time I’m putting into coaching.  How can I measure the benefits right now and so build a case for all my invested efforts?

Response:
Let’s see if I can help you build a business case for coaching. This could help you address the concerns of your boss and also assist you to keep your interventions in proper perspective.

Firstly, I’d like to ‘position’ it. Coaching is a way of getting things done (a strategy) and a preferred way of working (a style).  It isn’t an entity unto itself although many people appear to adopt this stance.

Coaching is also primarily, a management tool, especially in the context of the definition – a manager is one who gets results through other people, by making them successful. This suggests to me that a manager’s activities should be ‘convergent’, that is increasingly focused on the achievement of an end result or outcome – where attaining the ‘goal line’ is the main point of concern.

Having said this however, coaching deals mainly with how things are done. This contrasts with mentoring where the point of focus is ‘divergent’, meaning what things get done.  It’s very easy to confuse the two – mentoring and coaching – but I believe they should be treated as quite separate interventions.  There’s much more detail on this issue in my book “Way to Coach” – why not see for your self?

In this light, the impact and benefits of coaching can be measured in three different ways:

  • Short–term outcomes
  • Long-term benefits, and
  • Personal changes in perception (attitudes) – the third dimension.

Short-term outcomes are readily monitored / measured in how effectively and efficiently the desired end results are generated by the individual.  ‘Effective’ means that you got the right results, those that you intended and that the organization needed.  ‘Efficient’ means that you achieved these results in the right way – at an optimal expenditure of resources (people, money, materials, capital, time, information and motive energy) and relevant standards (quality, quantity, timing and costs).

‘Generated by the individual’ is a crucial consideration because it’s all too easy for the coach to quietly assume responsibility for the outcomes, allowing the individual to become a passive bystander.  This is not coaching.

If you’re able to accomplish the needed organizational results by way of enhancing and expanding the performance capabilities of your people then you’re coaching well – in the short-term.

Longer term benefits are another matter. To be a successful coach – one who will be gratefully appreciated and remembered – you have to leave a legacy.  This will likely be markedly different from one individual to another and it requires a tailor-made plan of action; it won’t just happen.

The context for longer-term benefit rests in the values of the individual being coached.  (S)He must develop an acute awareness of what is important in terms of personal fulfillment and satisfaction.  Maslow referred to this as ‘self actualization’.

When a person has a clear image of her/himself as fully ‘realized’, personal perspectives will become clear and values will be expressed openly.  The plan of action has to be authored by the person for only that person can know the fine detail of content, standards and acceptable strategies.

When the plan is shared with a competent and ethical coach it becomes a blueprint for the complex unfolding of individual accomplishment and achievement.  This plan of mutual or shared intentions focuses priorities, clarifies shared activities and deepens the relationship between coach and individual.

It’s comparable to parenting and can be assessed as harmonious, consistent, resilient and mutually beneficial interactions over time and changing circumstances.  You could measure turnover, absenteeism, lateness, passivity (low initiatives), personal errors and shortfalls, and of course, crises of confidence.  The Gallup organization points out that people don’t leave organizations, they leave their immediate boss!

The third dimension for measurement is the extension of this longer term consideration into the realm of organizational culture.  We’re all familiar with ‘attitudinal’ issues where the perspectives of an individual are incompatible with those of the group as a whole.  Such attitudes can be positive or negative, constructive or destructive, enhancing or distractive.

They’re a signal for desired change; they can also be an issue of compatibility.  If we consider attitudes as ‘tools’ that can instigate desired change we’re able to assess whether the tool is appropriate to the intended outcome.  This shifts our focus from the ‘personality’ of the user to that of a ‘deliberate’ strategy.

Coaching in this instance focuses on assisting the individual to select and apply the right attitudinal tool in the right way to accomplish the changes required.  Values, perspectives, temperament and style will need to be aligned for this to happen and since this can be very difficult to construct while the perceived need for change is dominant and sometimes urgent, it’s not always successful.

It takes time, subtlety and patience but when it is accomplished, it’s magical!  The coach’s power to influence is now transferred to another individual and coaching impact and reach is extended.

The hallmark of the great coach is that (s)he can create and manage results in all three areas concurrently.

I hope this is useful.

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Leadership in Practice: Followership – the other perspective

Leadership in Practice

A Different Angle . . .

As we launch into a new back-to-school season, I’d like to take a look at leadership from the receiving end. This approach is perhaps not a common practice however I think it could be a very valuable experience for us all.

It was stimulated by a coaching session I held with a relatively young and ambitious professional engineer who has a talent for posing penetrating questions. With a few liberties to protect the innocent, this is his story.

Michael is clearly a ‘front-runner’ in his field – astute, discerning, curious, imaginative, dedicated and insightful. He’s just thirty-five years old yet has been practicing his profession in a serious way for more than ten years having first earned a masters-level degree at a prestigious school.

His current role is that of a senior project specialist in the aviation field, currently dealing with some pivotal challenges in flight dynamics. On top of this, he’s an accomplished private pilot, very active in his community and church, a devoted husband and the proud parent of two beautiful daughters. He knows well how to use his energies and resources.

He’d approached me for advice because he had become increasingly confused and concerned about the leadership he was receiving; specifically, he needed to know if his expectations and experiences were reasonably balanced and based on realistic perspectives. It was clear to me from the start that his issues, while not unusual, were most disquieting and unsettling for him.

The History . . .
Initially, his professional assignments had been focused on a broad range of short-term projects. His first ‘big break’ was a junior specialized role on a major, high profile project that would expose him to some of the best minds in his field. The project was led by an industry-recognized professional, a ‘mover and shaker’ who was highly charismatic and generally revered. Michael was delighted to have this opportunity – at first!

It was a two-year program but by the fourth month the project was already in deep trouble. There were delays, shortages, inexplicable failures, conflicts and political shenanigans that were resulting in serious over-runs. The demands being made on project staff were both unreasonable and intolerable, and it was evident that the whole project was spinning out of control.

The Project Leader’s response was to intensify his efforts. There were high-level policy meetings, massive reassignments of personnel, radical changes to operating procedures and a great deal of focused reporting activity. The Project Leader visited every office, to confer face-to-face and at length with almost every functional head and to personally assess and revise every working plan and procedure. He even spent an hour with Michael directly.

Michael was flattered by the attention, impressed by the intensity of the interaction, almost overwhelmed by the concentration of information delivered and then singularly unimpressed by the outcomes – or lack thereof. Nothing of substance happened from this flurry of activity. The same issues quickly resurfaced and the problems were compounded. Within another three months, the Project Leader was unceremoniously dumped.

It took four weeks for a replacement to be named and introduced; in the meantime the project continued to flounder. The new Project Leader rapidly demonstrated himself to be a “rule-bound control freak” – nothing happened without his explicit, formal consent. Everything was run by the book and each decision had to be justified multiple ways regardless of its impact or significance. This was very distracting and although progress was being made, the associated costs in time, effort, goodwill and dollars were outrageous. Michael was losing heart and even beginning to doubt his own competencies and commitment level.

A Breakthrough . . .
After a full year on the project, Michael could see no definite successes or progress that might confirm that the right things were actually happening. Key staff members were leaving the project and the organization, and Michael was seriously considering becoming one of them. Suddenly, with no prior warning, the Project Leader was changed a third time.

At first, it seemed to be more of the same. There was a period of nearly three weeks when nothing happened. Then all the senior managers were called to Head Office for a week of planning and consultation. When they returned there was a palpable difference in attitudes and even in language. Something was definitively different.

The senior managers did not reappear with fresh directives but rather with a series of questions. The requests were not for information but rather for opinions and ideas. Broad objectives and standards were then presented with invitations for further suggestions and elaborations. A consensual plan began to unfold within each department and there were even tangible incentives for contact and collaboration with adjacent functions.

At this point the new Project Leader appeared on the scene. He spent relatively little time on the details of the local plans and programs but seemed to be primarily and vitally interested in the specific individuals engaged in the work. Again, the request for ideas and suggestions, demands for critical opinions on all related issues, and a solicitation of hopes and dreams for the intermediate and longer-term future.

Contrary to every expectation the project became substantially focused, re-established its time lines and even recovered a great deal of lost ground. Ultimately, it wasn’t a raging success but it was completed within an acceptable time and cost envelope and there was some sense of pride in being associated with its outcomes. The Project Leader wasn’t at all visible throughout this although there were several local heroes and success stories.

Since that time, nearly four years ago, there had been other similar experiences. In addition, on several occasions Michael was approached by senior management with invitations to move up to a leadership role.

The Analysis . . .
The way Michael described it, leadership was a crap shoot – once in a while it seemed to work, most often it didn’t!

“There’s no way I’d want to take on that kind of a role when I can’t see how to be successful!” he said. “It’s like spitting into the wind on a dark night. What am I missing here?”

“Tell me how you see the leadership issues in the major project you’ve described” I invited. “What was the impact of the various styles you experienced?”

He quickly zeroed in on the charismatic style of the first leader. “I’d always thought that this is how it should be done; that you had to have faith and full confidence in the abilities of the special guy who was chosen for the role. When he proved to be less than effective, even downright incompetent, yet spent all his time and effort in posturing, I felt nothing but pity for him. It seemed to me that he was being betrayed by the system and maybe by the senior executives who’d appointed him. It didn’t occur to me right away that he might have used the wrong approach.

Then, as I saw him missing opportunities that were clearly obvious to us all, I realized that it was his focus that was the problem – he was focused on himself and on his own invincibility. We were all being used – paying the price!”

“What about the second guy?” I asked.

“He was much more of a manager than a leader;” Michael responded, “he was a good enforcer but he didn’t inspire anyone to action. We all knew what it was that had to be done and he was supposed to help us. The problem was that he was more often in the way and slowing things down. There were fewer mistakes but progress was minimal. You know, this experience taught me that without a good inspirational leader very little can be accomplished.”

“So, did you finally have a good leader for the project” I asked him.

“Yeah – strange, that!” he mused, “we did get the show back on the road and finished up very well, but I can’t recall the specific things that the third leader did that really made a difference – but he must have done something, right?”

I shared a few thoughts on the role and functions of a leader, beginning with the definition – a leader is one who focuses the desire for change in other people and who then facilitates the creation of a sustainable new reality.

“That makes a lot of sense in the light of my experiences” he stated, “but how is it that some put themselves first – the charismatic ones – and others – the bureaucratic types – put the organization’s needs above everything else?”

“Much of that has to do with their effective assessment of where the true motivational power lies,” I responded. “You can’t force leadership upon others; you can only cultivate it within them and bring it out where it can be used. They’re the ones with the power to make things happen, the leader’s job is to focus what they have so that they can engage it. Without sympathetic, engaged followers the leader has no power of momentum”.

“Right! Of course! That’s what made it work for us finally – everyone got personally involved” he exclaimed. “Now I see it, and that’s why the third man was practically invisible. The focus was on all the other guys emerging and acting as leaders and that’s what he actually did – brought it out of them, I mean”.

”I think you’re right about that” I said, “so that would appear to me to be a great starting point for any aspiring leader – ‘how can I inspire and foster leadership perspectives in each of the people for whom I’m responsible?’

‘There’s a lot to consider right there,” said Michael. “I’ll think more about and discuss this further. Thanks”

The conclusions . . .
As I reflected on the conversation I realized once again that many organizations may waste talent and potential contribution through poor leadership practices. May I make three observations?

Firstly, senior management will often accept and tolerate sub-optimal performance from their designated leaders for too long because they have the out-dated notion that they can appoint leaders without any true appreciation of the needs of followers or even of prevailing conditions. The appointed leader now has to strive to reconcile the different perspectives and demands of superiors and subordinates in the face of this markedly deficient appreciation.

On the receiving end, for the followers, this can lead to immeasurable frustrations since impressions are rarely exchanged with any degree of frankness. Followers can experience the conflict but usually have little power to intervene in meaningful ways. Imagine the time that can elapse while competent followers struggle, unable to understand the rationale behind the leader selection. Consider also the resultant losses in productivity and initiative.

Secondly, how many bright young followers, perceptive enough to detect the conflicts but inexperienced and unseasoned in leadership practices, are forced to sit idly by and watch these appointed leaders erode their work? How long might this condition be tolerated – especially if there are alternative career options?

Finally, there are grossly misleading stereo types out there – in books, movies and on television – which offer the impression that leaders have to demonstrate unfailing strength of purpose and superhuman capabilities. This can both mislead and intimidate the many who could be offering constructive leadership. They’ll not volunteer to step up to the plate because they can’t see how to match their behaviors to the stereotype and to rise to the challenges with reasonable prospects of success.

The real power for change is resident in those who desire it, who want to experience and benefit from it; it is rarely, if ever in those who would simply wish to exploit it. The vital service a leader offers is summed up in two words – ‘focus’ and ‘facilitate’.  You don’t need to be high profile, gifted or privileged to perform either of these two services.

Without a leadership catalyst there may not be any action. With focus and supporting facilitation though, significant things can begin to happen. You just have to be ‘there’ – to focus and facilitate those who need you. At that point you stand out of the way so they can emerge as the leaders they too can be.

Think about it, please.

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Timely Insights… The 29% Solution

Timely Insights . . .

  • The 29% Solution . . .

Shades of Sherlock Holmes but designed for a more common mystery. This is the title of a book by Ivan Misner and Michelle Donovan, experts in the field of networking. It offers some very practical strategies and tips for those who are attempting to build and sustain personal networks – for whatever reason.

They debunk the popular concept of ‘six degrees of separation’ but assert that reading, coaching and training can help anyone to develop networking skills, increase their connections and become part of the roughly 29 percent of people in this world who are in fact connected; i.e., separated by just six degrees.

There’s a convenient book summary available at Soundview Executive Book Summarieswww.summary.com. If you’re not already subscribed to this valuable service, please consider it.

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What has Greed Got to Do With It?

A Point of View . . .

What has greed got to do with it? . . .
Arguably, one of the most frustrating yet beneficial factors in this recent recession is the response of the people who are affected. We are both instigator and victim; we are cause and effect, alpha and omega, stimulus and response; we are the authors of our own destiny;

There’s something deeply rooted in human psychology that continuously confounds us – the relationship between greed and compassion. Recent research indicates that we might well be hard-wired this way.

First we indulge ourselves beyond reason, exploiting the scant resources around us to the point that we approach self destruction. Then, at the brink, we engage in compensatory behaviors that haul us back to terra firma and towards redemption.

We buy things we do not need, laying waste the environment and encouraging wider and wider gaps between the ‘haves’ and the ‘have-nots’. At some indiscernible point the tide ebbs and we engage in self-denial, self restraint, sacrifice and altruism. This creates an internal deficit that convinces us that we are truly deserving so we flip back to rewarding ourselves by over-spending again – only to repeat the cycle.

What ever happened to reasoned moderation? Rather than exacerbating the gap between the privileged and the deprived, why wouldn’t we close it? Is this communistic hyperbole? Is it religious fanaticism? Or is it plain common sense? My sainted Scottish aunt always used to tell me that the only problem with common sense is that it isn’t very common!

If we are truly ‘hard-wired’ we may not have a free will to engage here, but somehow I have real doubts that we’re incapable of addressing this problem. Surely, our fate lies not within our neural pathways, but within our hearts.

If we were to decide that we’d all be better off and safer were we to even out the peaks and valleys of greed and the resultant compassion, could we not move in that direction at least?

Well, that’s the way I see it anyway.

David

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You’re all talk…!

You’re all talk . . .!
There’s a major difference between talking about things and getting things done.

Many organizations suffer from a ‘knowledge – doing’ problem, the inability or reluctance to convert what they know into action – this being far worse that not knowing what to do in the first place.

There’s an oriental philosophical axiom that states that “true knowledge can be attained only by doing”.  If this is indeed the truth – and I believe firmly that it is – then what is it we think we know before we’ve put anything into practice?

We all confuse one another by insisting that we must talk about things thoroughly before we commit to action. Then, having met to discuss the issue, perhaps several times, we convince ourselves that we’ve actually done something about it. If there was no actual implementation though, we’ve made no headway at all.

We also assume that we’re better informed and more knowledgeable having shared these ideas than we were before we discussed them. How can we be? We haven’t yet experienced anything different than before; the newly acquired knowledge is meaningless until we’ve wrapped our individual realities around it.

One of the main criticisms I have of our business education programs is that they generate great talkers and theorists but fall far short on the issue of practical experiences. We do not need more “intelligent talk” in our organizations – we need meaningful action.

How many times have you been told, “I can’t move forward on this until I receive some needed information”? In my experience, information is just organized data. In order to make a move what I need is ‘intelligence’ – information that actually means something to me and usually at an emotional level. That’s a very small percentage of the vast store of information that available out there. I can wait forever for information and I’ll still not get all I need.

What I’m suggesting here is that ‘information’ is more of a crutch and an impediment than it is a vital element that could and should influence my next actions. In most circumstances I know enough right now to take at last one step forward with implementation.

When I do this, guess what happens?  The situation appears different!  In the light of my new position and perspectives my original needs have changed. What I thought was important is no longer what I had believed; I need something different.

I learned this well in the military. As a junior leader in the field I had very little information, just a compelling mission. The one luxury I never had was the option of doing nothing while I waited for information. I had to appreciate what was intelligence and, therefore, something I could act upon, and then move forward. If I didn’t I was a sitting duck!

I once asked my Company Commander, “How will I know that I have enough information to be sure about what I need to do?” His response was pointed, “Nothing is ever ‘sure’ except the need to take the objective. Just do it!”

The problem with sitting there waiting for information is that the enemy will locate you and take you out of the picture. One of the most potent military strategies is ‘surprise’. Why would anyone want to diminish it?

Please do not misunderstand me. I’m not saying that we do not need information – we surely do. What we really need though is an action-bias that will ensure that the information remains our servant, not our master.

Think about it!

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“How Do I ‘Let Go’ a Colleague Without Guilt?”

Coach’s Corner . . .

A selection from frequently–asked questions

Dear Coach,
The current economic situation has resulted in a number of colleagues being ‘let go’. One colleague in particular, with whom I used to work very closely, is now creating problems for me and others who were retained (for the present).  He’s staying in very close contact on a daily basis and he alternates between being really angry and then deeply depressed. It seems he expects us to ‘be there’ for him, investing much time and financial support.

I think he should stand on his own feet, learn from his experiences and move on. I’m beginning to resent the demands he’s making on me and others. I would help him out if I could but we’ve all taken cuts and we’re not out of the woods yet. Also wouldn’t helping him just create dependencies? I really want to offer him respect and compassion but I’m not ready to make other commitments. How do I deal with this without feeling guilty?

Response:
This is a tough situation for anyone to handle and I applaud your intention to find an accommodating solution.

Let’s deal with the issue of guilt first since it’s fundamental and has a profound impact on most other concerns. There’s a difference – and a marked one at that – between types of guilt and also pain. It could be that you’re experiencing some form of guilt (e.g. “there, but for the Grace of God, go I” – so-called ‘survivor guilt’ – or “might he or others disapprove of my lack of response to his needs” – ‘social guilt’).

If you’re doing your best, then it’s shouldn’t be moral guilt, for which you could legitimately punish yourself, so it’s more likely to be something else.  More likely, what you’re experiencing is the pain that attends empathy. In such a case, you need to look to your inner self rather than outward; you appear to have made a sound and defensible decision so be comfortable with it and enact it with confidence.

You’d prefer to remember him as he was before the severance but his actions are contaminating the memories. That can be painful for you both and if not managed it will cause the relationship to deteriorate.
You can sympathize with him (feel his pain) and identify with his situation (understand the pressures he’s under), yet deplore his current behaviors.

You would best serve your own feelings by creating some deliberate space between you for awhile. There’s a point of balance here though, and you will want to remain accessible while reducing the possibilities for too much contact. To achieve this, keep your contacts reasonably frequent, but irregular / spontaneous and always of short duration. You don’t want to allow too much time for unproductive ‘crying into the beer’.

A complete separation, however, could send entirely the wrong signal even if it’s for a pre-designated time. Manage contacts by arranging each successive one at the end of the previous meeting and at a ‘safe’ or comfortable period into the future. Honour these commitments – or don’t make them in the first place.

Above all, be consistent in your responses. Decide on the kind of support that you can offer – e.g. a sounding board, network contact, confidante, coach / mentor, strategy developer / supporter, researcher, or whatever, and stay with the role(s) you’ve agreed upon. Be firm about declining other involvements by stating “that’s not an area where I can assist you” and avoid the temptation to justify or reconsider if provoked.

It happens that some people can’t take ‘No’ for an answer and will be unusually persistent. In such cases, outline the consequences of repeated demands – “Should you continue to pressure me on this, I’ll feel compelled to reduce my time available / support in other areas”.

The greatest danger in these situations is that you can be enticed / forced to respond in a way you do not intend and where resentments could follow. The over-arching objective is to preserve the relationship beyond the current circumstances and this may well mean some short-term compromises. These are options and consequences which need to be discussed between you.

Be cool without becoming cold by keeping the longer-term objective firmly in mind. Be firm without being rigid by offering alternative ways you can offer support instead of responding only to the specific request – “I’ve already shared with you the areas where I’m ready to provide support and this is not one of them. I am ready to offer you some time to develop alternative strategies that could solve your problem, if this helps.”

Kind, resilient and sympathetic responses aren’t always appreciated at the point of delivery, but are very likely to be recalled as ‘wisdom’ in the future. Be careful to maintain an even keel if rebuffed, remembering the extraordinary conditions that exist. Don’t allow resentments to emerge and/or accrue just because others are behaving irrationally.

Remember though, that friendships are like gold – they need to be heated and stressed to be refined.

I hope this helps.

David

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The Positive Workplace: Where’s Everybody Gone?

The Positive Workplace

Where’s everybody gone?

I’m amazed how many folk have put life – and living – on hold.

Gone are the rants and raves. Not even a moan or two about the general ills of the world.

Staring off into space; holding their breath.  It’s as if we are simply waiting for the sound of the other shoe falling.

It’s a sign of the times, I hear you say.

Really?  And need it be so?  Is all truly lost?

Surely there is more to life (and living) than the ‘a to z’s’ of this financial crisis.

There’s an old Scottish proverb that admonishes us to

Be happy while you’re living,
for you’re a long time dead.

Ain’t that the truth!

So what might we do about this?

Do we play games with ourselves – persuade ourselves that these are but paper losses?

Tough to do when the kids need braces … we’re afraid that our job may be the next to go…. or we’re the beyond the sunny side of 50!

Do we count our blessings; remind ourselves that, compared to others, we’re really in pretty good shape?

Or do we focus on what’s really important in life, most especially in times like these?

In the words of Chris Peterson, one of the world’s leading positive psychologists.

People matter.
Relationships matter.

We are, after all is said and done, social animals. People who need people!

More to the point…

we each need people who are ‘present’.

These are folk who are not mired by the past, nor focused solely on the future.

People with whom we can share a laugh, or even cry a tear or two!

These are the folk who are with us, for us, in the here-and-now…wherever, whenever that might be.

They are the people who appreciate us for who we are, no matter the circumstance.

Being present – the gift of life, the gifts in life.

I’m here with you, for you.

Where are you?

It’s only together that we can make a real difference in this world.

Amanda
http://www.positiveworkplace.com

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